LASTING FIRST IMPRESSION

 

It takes meagre seven seconds to make the first impression. People thin-slice others based on how they look and sound, more than explicit verbal statements. Someone's first impression is often influenced by implicit attitudes that they are unaware of, which explains impulsive actions like giving particular preference to those with physical beauty or more easily trusting a person who has a baby-face. The things that we say, how we act, and everything that indicates our personality lay the foundation for the other person to build an idea about our character or personality.  

Once the foundation is laid, it becomes challenging to change it. Thus, the first impression is significant because it creates a granite foundation for how people perceive us. Precisely this is why people should make every effort to create a good first impression. 

The reason is simple that the first impression is the best impression that is lasting. It is critical. No matter how many times we meet the same people, we are usually associated with the first impression.

It is the first impression that sets the ball rolling, and every subsequent meeting or image is most likely an extension of that.

Resultantly, considering the first impression the last impression, we must not miss out on making an excellent opening impression as it can often be the decisive factor in determining a second meeting.

The first impression to be impressive and lasting requires confidence, so walk-in confidently with head held high. Be polite yet audible. Maintain a positive outlook and smile. What a person says reflects his way of thinking and the opinion he has on things. The words we utter are a mirror of our personality. Thus, we must take time and think twice before saying something that comes across as totally foolish or wrong.

Outfits should be in sync with the occasion. Also, they should be spotlessly clean and crispy looking. The colours should not be dominating or too intense in case of formal or business meeting. In a nutshell, dress up as confident, comfortable, and smart as the first impression is never created the second time.

So, go and stamp your impression confidently!

Kamini Haldhar

HOD English

The Mann School, Delhi